One final entry for now. W said she did t have time to think about the invite so that's. Why she didn't. Call back....but shed already discussed it with D 13 and made plans to drive there....I don't. Understand that statement. She thought about the invite enough to make plans.....
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14