Yes Lostforwords...you are absolutely right on it all. It has been a long, hard few weeks (couple years) and it's not over. The $100k divorce will go on and on and will escalate more $'s and more stress. She knows what buttons to push....just so cruel. Nice didn't work. Amicable didn't work. Battle didn't work. Indifference...thought I tried, but maybe not or not enough or long enough. It is more about winning for her rather than reason or logic. Control obsessed she is. You're right, gotta control myself. Thought I tried that too. Fun with the girls would be great...though it is all the father and duty stuff lately. No time for the fun part. That is what is bugging me too I think. I don't know. Soooo tired.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
