She did acknowledge she'll go in cycles though so I guess I can just ride it out and focus on perking her up. She's talking about never seeing her life the same way (true) but seems to be pessimistic. I asked her what she wants her life to be like in five years. Dunno if it's the right track but I figured thinking about things she wants is better than thinking about things she doesn't want. See how we go.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014