2S2Q, sorry about the recent events. It does sound like your W doesn't know what she is doing from day to day. What happened after that text about rekindling the passion and saying "I love you"? Do you think that was just her keeping you on the hook, or did you get the sense she really might want to work things out?
You can detach and move forward, without moving on.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14