Thanks a lot for the advice. I'll order my book tonight and work on giving her space by not calling or texting. A little difficult for me to swallow knowing my wife is sleeping with OM multiple times a week. I've turned to some joke around them. She pass insult at me when she's around OM and told me to get a life. All she does now is lie about everything. I called her earlier today and she told me not to ever call her again. All this in front of OM. This has being going on for 2month now. Do I need to speak to a lawyer? She said she's not sure if she want divorce, but that was out of the window after I found out she was selling with OM. She told me she want a divorce now and ready to move with her life. We both agreed to take D of the table yesterday, but her whole conversation with me is more like a friend and not couple. She want me in the friend zone while she figure things out with OM. I called OM at the beginning of this, but I got was denier. I need some advice on how to go about this. I'm sick to my stomach knowing she's giving a body this young man. Does affair with a young man ever result to full bloom relationship? She's telling me she really like him and want more from him. I'm also afraid she might introduce my daughter to this guy.
