Whatever you decide. We are here for you. Take it easy and the answer will come.
And, if you decide to stay, consider giving it a set amount of time--3 months? Before you reconsider again.
Maybe taking some time would give you a chance to put things in order, visit an attorney, think about living arrangements and custody, etc...
I know you are weary. I'm sorry. For what it's worth, I agree with what Eric wrote below:
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If you can lovingly approach her and say "Look, W, it's clear that you are very unhappy staying in this relationship with me. I love you enough to set you free.
Agree 100%...make sure the kids are not around and that if you have this convo that you are emotionally prepared.
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First you are not her father. She is not stupid (may be acting like an idiot but I doubt she is generally stupid). I also think putting together a spreadsheet is not YOU place. If she is leaving then she can figure it out. If she has figured out how to have an affair she can figure out how to take care of herself. That said, if she is receptive to packing up and leaving and seems calm and workable, then I think a spreadsheet could work.
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