2S2Q - Bring it on, 2014!!!

[Barrybran]

Maybe yes, maybe no. Our situations were similar for a brief period and now seem to be diverting slightly however the list you found applies to me too. Right now, I'm getting mixed messages from my wife, kind of like she accepts that we're together but I'm not who she wants me to be (still figuring that out to be honest) but she's definitely not into me in a romantic way. My point is that I have a chance and whilst I can only go from what I read, I believe you do too. Detaching is the way to go for all of us but as I've read in other threads, you need only move on if you decide it's right for you.