Quite an interesting read. I don't think it's a reason to quit but a reason to refocus. I suppose it's getting back to the idea that you live life for you but when she's around, you're the bees knees. It sounds like you're in a decent position to try that out.
Was that all that was on that list? I'm curious to read more if there is.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014