Interesting choice of words, job. H has actually said, "You broke me" "I'm not the same person I was before"

Ick. This is getting scary.
Thanks for all your advice earlier on your first posting to my thread. I am going to reread it tonight and take action to care for myself and kids. I feel like I've fallen into this MLC pit and been caught by the caring hands of all of you. Thanks again.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014