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Both my life & W's life is rounding into shape with the other one not in the picture.

I totally understand your concern.

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W is living like a single parent (when OM is not there), kids are getting used to me not being there, & I'm getting used to living my own life without W

As much as this may suck right now – you need to keep the focus on YOU and YOUR changes. Take your M right now and put away. Trust….if it is meant to be it will be. Believe it or not, your W needs this time away from you and you need it away from her. You have enough interactions right now to show her the new you. A lot of times people come here and want immediate results. Well it took time to break it is gonna take time to fix.

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Moving out of house into an apartment, living by myself instead of having W, kids, & dogs under 1 roof.

Do the kids spend nights at your place? If not, why?

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W & I were fighting for past 7-9 months about lots of things.

Can you elaborate on what you fought about?


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