Oh and Melissa, BTW, regarding the word Divorce.

When my H left we agreed to separate. As he was leaving he was backtracking and saying this doesn't have to be forever amongst other things.

I announced our S to friends that came over on Saturday. They were SHOCKED. Devastated. Word travels fast in our town of 1000 people. My H told his mom that we're just trying to get some space so we can stop fighting. What?


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014