Melissa-Agreed. I missed you guys, too. I took a few days off and now I have a novels worth of threads to catch up on. We all need to live closer and do this over some beers. And you're right. I would have never imagined this happening. My H was a good man. He was good to me and the kids. He was a man of principle and was proud of us and our family. He told me this summer "You were the love of my life". Well toss that out the window. I'm being snarky today, but I really am ok. If I think about it, this has been brewing for 2-3 years.
Job-Thanks for posting on my thread. I am currently reading Raines thread in MLC as was advised by Wonka. rH was also mentioned, but I've been unable to locate that thread.
It's bewildering to watch someone do what they say is hurting themselves and others, but be powerless over themselves to fix it. Just a bizarre thing.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014