Hi Julie and M. thanks for adding in. I agree that the mask has come off of my W. I no longer wear the rose colored glasses. I believe that what my Friend said to me is true. sometimes we do bad things and get stuck like smoking. Now I'm trying to kick the habit. She compared the way I feel today to thinking about having another cigarette. She reminded me that those just kill you in the end....


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14