Rise & Shine V

[Pudmuddle]

Hi 3! Wow, you have had a lot going on lately. Your posts on 1/17-1/22 really hit home with me. I have gotten to the same point where I am tired of all the BS and him not wanting to change or believe that anything can change. In fact, I gave him the speech the other day, when out of the blue he asks if I'd thought about a mediator. Out of the blue, inserting it into casual convo about the dogs and son as if it were a mere pittance. That was it for me.

I have yet to reach out to a L, but H still has not moved on or out and is now acting like things are 'normal' again.

You sound so strong my lady, and I have missed you! This is all so hard. With the exception of the alcohol, your H sounds just like mine! Complacent to live his life as is and not wanting to change. And you know what? You are so much more worthy of him and you deserve to be loved the way you need to be loved. Don't forget that, please. And yes, there is someone out there who would love you and your little children, all together.

{{{HUG}}} big time from me.