Originally Posted By: MamaB
My H was never very specific with what I was doing wrong during the M.


Yes, but most of us already know....we just have to have the courage to look.

Originally Posted By: MamaB
What I would have changed in myself was to be more physically affectionate to my H and to be more present in our relationship.


Why more physically affectionate? Is this something he complained about, or something you were unhappy with? What does "be more present" mean?

Originally Posted By: MamaB
I would have made sure that we took the time to nurture our relationship as husband and wife.


How? What would that look like?

M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13