Yup. Depression in men is different. It just is. And, unfortunately, male depression/MLC isn't understood the way menopause or other depression is understood. Hopefully, someday there will be more information.

For now... Just know that it isn't about you. It's all inside him--all the ick is pouring forth and he has no clue how to handle it. So he is running as fast and furiously as he can. In the wrong direction.

"Lookin for love in all the wrong places, lookin for..."

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson