Wow Lois - that is such a powerful position for you to be in.... I cant imagine - at this stage - feeling that level of detachment. That is something to aspire to. I am sure that you have been through a lot of pain. Has your H given you any signs that he wants to do any work - that he is trying to reconnect? Or has he just cut you off and not shown any interest? I received two emails from WAP last week -they were purely in relation to me moving out of his house. I( have heard nothing since and cannot expect to. I do not think that WAP is going to be in contact - if at all. At this stage certainly he is done with me and D and is GUNNING for this new and rejuvenated life............I represent everything that is stale, wrong, upsetting and limiting. x