Thank you Lois......... How do we cope with OW (the issue of). WAPs OW is married (unless she has recently left her H) with 4 children. She is an amateur singer and is into yoga.... I am trying to be calm - trying so hard but today - probably because of the FB episode - I am in upset re OW> Other days I have been stronger. I think I have, up till now, assumed that it is an MLC fling/affair down etc. But for some reason I am upset that it could mean a lot more. Now I am rambling again....x