This is what I wish someone had told me two years ago. They probably did, but I wasn't in a place to hear it.
There's gold at the end of this journey for EVERYONE--IF you work for it.
There truly is a treasure waiting for you, but YOU HAVE to FEEL what comes up.
I'm not divorced. My H is living with the OW in an apartment about an hour from our home. In print, it looks lousy...
But, you know what? I like myself and my life more than I EVER HAVE. I wouldn't go back for a million dollars. Really.
I've done the work and I still have my down days, but, even on the down days, I'm glad this happened. My H's problems were the thing I needed to get myself moving towards a much better, happier me.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson