I'm thinking & focusing on myself & trying to put my best foot foreword everyday,
Doing this will make you a winner – either way this goes NY. Remember that…at the end of the day YOU matter!
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some days are tougher than others but I'm trying to take it day by day
Dealing with what you are dealing with is not easy man. Stop for a second and realize….you are LIVING the vows you committed too! “for better or worse” – this is the worse part. She may or may see it – it really does not matter. I hope and pray that YOU realize what YOU are doing and you should be proud of yourself. Trust me…it is much easier to say F it and quit.
In terms of “how long you should wait” – it really is all up to you. I hope you realize that YOU decide when the M is over. Not her. Divorced or not – only you decide. Taking it day by day IMO, is the right approach. You may have days when say “I’m done”…then you will say “I’m not done” a few days later – all normal buddy. All normal responses.
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I'm worried that we are starting to get settled in a routine.
Then what are your plans to change it up?
What are you doing for yourself NY? Hobbies? Guys night out?
BTW – why did you move out? Does your W work? Do you have a set schedule with the kids?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
