Here's the link to "Reaching out for support and advice 3"

Thanks everyone for posting. The support on here is incredible and it makes me wonder what my life would look like if I hadn't found these resources and amazing people.

Thanks for putting the word out, Wonka.

Bug, I totally get what you're saying. He seemed more in control yesterday. If he continues to be volatile, I may set that boundary. But I realize he will run further.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2428645&#Post2428645

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014