--Blues, here's the thing, If your H is depressed he can get treatment. He's not yours to fix so whether he does or doesn't isn't your responsibility. If he chooses to not get treatment, it's within reason that you set a boundary that says, "I can't be with you if you don't get treatment."--
Nope. This wouldn't work at all since depression is part and parcel of the MLC process. Just gonna have to let H work through it himself. You can't force someone to seek treatment and it is a "disease" that is temporary with MLC. Oh my! If you bring this up to the MLCer, they're gonna think you're the crazy one!
Blues,
Yup. Your H does have MLC based on all of the indications that are ticked off from the checklist. So sorry that this is happening to you. I've posted in my thread asking folks to swing by from time to time to help you along this process. I'll be watching you here.
