You are working on changing yourself....Wouldn't creating wonder be representative of change?
The kids crying does suck.....but their future is build upon the foundation that is your relationship with the wife? I have a house metaphor posted somewhere in the forum about family and relationships....see if you can find it.
Interrogation from the parents....Seriously brother? Are you a man or a teenager? Why can't a guy just go out with his wife LOL (Honestly, I got this before. Even before the breakup...never made sense to me why parents couldn't just have fun with the grandkids and be quiet)
B...as long as your hear my nuggget of advice, then the seed is planted in your head and I am good with that. One thing you will learn if you browse the piecing board is that regular date nights are a must. Now you aren't at piecing, but at the same time you aren't exactly in the depths of h@ll either. The one thing I do really get from your wife is that she wants you to take charge of things....Hence the no planning, let's just do it approach.
