Mg & Bg- Remember that the boundaries are to protect you...They truly help you take control of YOUR life and define what you want and how you are going to live it. I have seen all kinds of talk on here about confrontation, going DIM, going LRT, etc....IMHO boundary setting is the best action for your long term development. You start with easy ones (no more grumbling to the cat...lmao, I like that one) and then move up the ladder with different boundaries that represent your values and principles (not boundaries to control.....those never work). Soon you will find yourself happier and that everything is easier.
