separated 8 weeks still on the journey

[paul19510]

Paul,

I'm not buying that you are done. Your words in your last convo with your W make me believe that you hope she snaps out of it.

I can tell you that you have a lot of healing that needs to take place whether you get divorced or fight for your marriage. You are very much attached, otherwise you wouldn't talk about her so much. You are 8 weeks into this, 8 WEEKS. The hurt doesn't go away that quickly friend. Personally, it is the greatest hurt that I have ever felt, which includes losing my dad and best friend while going through my mess.

HI LT. perhaps. Although it makes no sense to not be done. Some part ofneishes she would see. Ive wished that for years. She's. Not going to. Its very unhealthy for me to be in that place. I must movenforwardnand heal.

Obviously it is your choice. I would hate to see you make a mistake because you don't have the patience to fight through the hurt. There are no shortcuts through this emotional hell. Only way to the other side is through it.

Best of luck.