I agree with Melissa. You W almost seems to be confiding in D. Very unhealthy. I'm glad you had integrity and did not agree with what your D said about your W and just kept those thoughts to yourself. Very tough sometimes, I know
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014