Reaching out for support and advice 2

[labug]

Those are also symptoms of depression.

Blues, here's the thing, If your H is depressed he can get treatment. He's not yours to fix so whether he does or doesn't isn't your responsibility. If he chooses to not get treatment, it's within reason that you set a boundary that says, "I can't be with you if you don't get treatment."

You're in a tough spot, I wish you the best.