I don't think much damage was done. We had a long friendly chat today and seems the same .
H is very depressed again because of his job he is doing now and his career he has been working on for 3 years. He was offered a job and the BD because after that the city put a hiring freeze. Then last week they he was told its on and got a conditional offer letter. Then yesterday he got a thank you for your application but they have decided not to hire? He has not been able to contact them and the letter sounds strange. Anyway he is very depressed.
It is so hard for me not to console and try to make it better. That would me what I'd do. A 180 would be do nothing...Advise? We are talking and not tension between us at this time...
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
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