Blues- agree with everyone here. Your H is sick and it sounds like he could use some professional help. I was thinking the same thing as AS. Are there any friends or family members he would listen to since it cannot come from you?

At the same time it is great to hear you are experiencing some happiness. You deserve it.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15