I'm starting to think that maybe I just don't know how to answer these questions the way you guys want me to.
There are no right or wrong answers. The answers are what ever they are for you.
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My plan is to be the kind of man I want to be. I live the part every day now. I compliment my W, I hug and kiss her often, I get her coffee in the morning, I help with the dishes, we compete in Jeopardy every night, we actually talk about how our day went. I'm doing all the things that I never used to do and enjoy doing them because they make me happy. I'm not just doing them because its what my W has wanted all along.
I like your plan. Just be you... the new you. The man any woman would love to have as her partner. What else can you do? She'll either accept you or she won't. You'll be ok either way. No offense meant to anyone, but I honestly think some people want to make this a little more difficult than it needs to be.
You need to be confident and proceed from there. Not second guessing your every move.
But then again, I don't claim to be an expert, so maybe I'm just talkin' out my backend.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
