Starsky: Yes, I still want to save my marriage and re-attract W. When I moved out back in August, W was worried about finances. Based on that, I said I would pay for any costs associated with the cats, or help out with them anyway I could. Not having children of my own, they are my "girls", so to speak. Based on that, I do whatever is needed of me to take care of them. The questions about taxes and 401k, etc are natural since finances are my forte. If I were to say no to helping with the cats or answering her questions, wouldn't that tell her that I don't care?
