I am so impressed with you and how you seem to have really gotten it together over the past few months. And I love that you feel you won't have any regrets. That's kind of where I am trying to get too . . . my codependency is probably what is keeping me stuck, and I think that probably most of us here could stand to read the book. It sure couldn't hurt.
It seems like you are really in a great place right now. You are confident in your life and happiness without H, if it comes to that, yet you have the patience and compassion to allow your H to work out his own issues. I think that knowing you will be OK without him will really help you to stand for your M without getting steamrolled.
You are doing great - thanks for the inspiration today, I needed it!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
