I don't think I have to change forums. I like where I am right now with some great people.

I am feeling "concern" for my H. But I am no longer worrying and fretting and snooping and obsessing.

I am feeling happier. I am not my old happy self yet.

I am feeling better about moving forward with my life and doing things I was holding back before while still trying to control the situation.

I have let go of the rope.

Ah, that feels good.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014