Stay strong 3. He is very clever at quietly pushing until he gets his way. Someone previously mentioned this and I, too, believe he is stringing you along and cake eating.
You may have a more difficult time with boundaries since he is kind of sneakily getting past them when given the chance. I feel that he is still very invested in the M and family, but very confused. Stay strong, 3, and hold your ground in your very tactful and kind way. You'll feel better about yourself for it.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014