melissag XII - must. detach.

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Thanks, 3. Just for the record, the shark story actually happened in Hawaii last summer. I wasn't even exaggerating to be funny.

And yes, my H also thought I was a hypochondriac, and would accuse me of lying about being sick because I was trying to get out of doing something I didn't want to do. He never believes the kids when they are sick or hurt either. He has said he needs to see blood or vomit to believe it.

Is that a man thing?

While I know that your H is acting like an a$$ right now and definitely has some things that he needs to work on, make sure that you dont rewrite history.

Thank you for this. It's a good point. Right now, I just feel really down on H and our M. It's hard to believe any of the good things were really real, because I see now how emotionally dishonest my H is/was, and now I don't even know what was real or genuine.