Has your H given you the reasons he felt the need to go outside of the M? Prior to BD, what was wrong with the M for you?

M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13