still hopeful... no matter where life takes me

[bluesgal]

Hey Julie- Isn't it hard to remember that normal thinking of someone and sending them a text could be pursuing? I still sometimes feel like I'm second guessing myself.

You H seems to be cycling back and forth with his anger. I just posted on my thread that I've been questioning MLC with my H.

I'm not suggesting this about your H, or saying that it even changes how you handle your sitch, but it made me feel less crazy. It helped for me to see my H behavior line up with MLC and to have a template for what's to come...kind of.

I kept feeling like the anger and cycling behavior didn't match the threads I follow of WAS-my H was more extreme. Now I finally feel like I have a grasp on my sitch.

Maybe look into that and see what you think.