Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

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I am so upset. 3rd snow day - home with kids which I generally enjoy, but it's raining/sleeting, so can't really sled. Kids are having fun inside, but I went out to shovel out because I was going to have an eye doctor's appointment, but now the office cancelled it. Also started to shovel out the mailbox, which is snowed in so we got a notice from the post office to shovel it out. Well, it is all packed ice and I was trying, but I started crying in the end. I am tired. Husband just happened to arrive as I was crying, because he says he thought we agreed he would watch kids as I went to eye doctor - although I thought I had told him I would get someone else - I am just upset and tired - nothing is working out. It is not bad outside for driving, but eye doctor cancels on one day I had taken off of work (because only day I could schedule). Husband seemed concerned -even called me sweetie - when he saw I was crying, but as I tried to explain, he just kind of shut down. Everyone will say, yes, predictable, I told you so, PMA. Well, work is hard. Maintaining the home alone is hard. Losing emotional support of husband is hard. Having him threaten to take money I have earned - and be supported in this by the law - is hard.