Four weeks in, hopeful but just starting!

[KGirl]

Well, I just sent an e-mail to my H asking him about a few financial questions:
1) In the past our arrangement was that he would pay for the car insurance/gas (since we shared a car), and I'd pay for health insurance, since it comes out of my paycheck anyway. The amounts weren't quite equal but close enough. Now that I have my own car and am paying my own car insurance/gas, I don't think it's fair for me to shoulder all of the health insurance burden, and asked him how he'd want to address it for the time being (didn't make any reference to "while we're still married" or anything, just "for the time being"). I noted that the only thing I could think of was for him to pay me half the amount each month.
2) He got an iphone this fall and used all of the reward points we'd built up through our cell carrier for the past 2+ years to do so. When I got a new phone a year ago, it was a spur-of-the-moment decision without him there, so I didn't feel like I could use the points without consulting him and paid actual money for it. So my email also asked if we had a plan to address the discrepancy, since I couldn't remember if/what we had decided. The points were worth about $250, so not small change.

I e-mailed since lately if I try to ask him about anything logistically in person he just gives me a blank look and doesn't answer or says "I don't know." I think this was OK? I guess it could be "pursuing", but I do need answers to these questions, as they are significant amounts of money especially over multiple months for the insurance, and they are things we need to figure out no matter what happens. I didn't ask anything about our "status". It may have been a little more business-like than it would have had things been different but... I guess it is what it is. I do need to take care of myself financially.