Another individual who has been following my "life" and what's been happening asked me a question a few days back asking how long it'd be willing to wait 6 months ...1 year...3 years? I gave them an "I don't know" answer. I don't want to offend or upset anyone who is following and responding to my posts I been getting a lot of positive feedback. Please keep it coming I'm learning a lot about how everyone is handling each situation.
Re-acting/answering the "how long would I wait" question, as of right now probably until the divorce papers get handed to me. I believe M can still be saved; time, effort, & MC will all be needed. Plus W is gonna play a major role in the "fixing" of the M. Right now that is not in the cards.
I'm worried that we are starting to get settled in a routine. This is what W has also mentioned when taking about the kids. They know that I live apart, mom is seeing OM etc. Day by day is my approach & it's funny W has said this a couple of times as well. What's up with that?