Mama, yes. You need to GAL like mad. Do you exercise? If yes, do it more. If not, get started. It's huge. A support group would be wonderful. Do you have girl friends you can go out with? Even just going to lunch is great. Keep doing things with your kids, don't isolate yourself, and try not to focus on your H and what he is doing or thinking. (I know, that's really hard.)
Keep reading other people's threads - as labug said the other day, there are many success stories on this board . . . and most of them are when the M is not saved. You will be OK. You will be better than OK.
Stay strong!!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
