Thanks, GB, for visiting my thread and for your wisdom.
It is really hard suddenly not knowing who my H is or what he is capable of doing. I think I just need to operate as though I can trust him with nothing. It makes me sad, but it's the only way to protect myself.
What is Oprah's (or Maya Angelou's) saying . . .
When people show you who they are, believe them.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14