He's the confused one...

[BRNR]

Job, GM, BM - Thanks for stopping by to say "Hi"

GM-I think a lot about you. Our sitches were always so similar and I pop in from time to time to read where you are in this journey.

I have had very minimal contact with H. Meaning an email about once a month about the children or financial matters. He ignores these emails or attacks me in them...blah, blah, blah. I had to pull the plug on H seeing the boys, because of a few reasons. I didn't know where the kids were "living" when they were with him and he refused to provide an address for a couple of months, his non paying of support with demands that I provide for our children when they were in his care, and his lack of parental responsibilities when our children were with him (he was not providing them with clean clothes or having them bathe when they were with him).

He hasn't seen them in about two months now, and of course throws out how I am in contempt of the court order over and over again. What he doesn't see is that he is in violation of so many court orders and morally isn't having good judgement to care for our boys.

His latest stunt was to change the health insurance plan the boys are on, and didn't notify me. My son is on monthly medications...that now cost me $230.00. When I asked him what the details of the new plan were he said "he wasn't going to discuss this issue until we were in court in front of a judge with his lawyer by his side." I kindly asked for his attorneys info so we could move forward with things...no response...I asked him two days later as the medical needs of our boys really shouldn't wait for him to do whatever it is he's doing and no response....Surprise Surprise.

He still thinks that ignoring the issues are going to make them magically go away...HAAA!

He throws out the words "attorney" and "divorce" like I care...has called me a unfit and unstable mother to and in front of our boys, all while losing himself, his assets, and his soul. He owes me about $9k in combination of supports, but runs around town saying I am mooching off of him. Ha...laughable.

He wants me to get rid of my car, cancel wi-fi, stop taking my kids out to dinner and doing small fun moments out like movies and bowling.

I know he can't stand that I have everything, but too bad. All I can say is boo-hoo!

He didn't see the kids on Christmas, didn't get them not one gift, or even ask them what they wanted. SAD. But had a nerve to buy his GF and her daughter things on MY credit card. It would have been nice if he actually stole the money to buy his OWN kids stuff...LOL!

The kids don't like him, have refused to talk to him, don't want to be around him. It breaks my heart, but it really is best for them to not be around him at this time...he is too destructive and still selfish.

H's mother has now sided with her son...bad mouth me to the entire family of in-laws and then had a nerve a week later to call me all nice and sweet, saying "I love you, MOM" ... Both my kids and I found out from another relative that did not agree. My kids are livid.

Hmmm. I'm not sure what else, but I know there is more, but it isn't anything different then what everybody has seen or heard I'm sure.

I've been dating a few nice men here and there...not committed to any of them and really just have fun. They all have their pro's and con's, but it has made me aware that I am a very special lady who deserves to have it all including someone just as special.

So, in MY journey, I am doing well. I have so much GOOD around me. People and things. I feel great and free.

Moving forward and living life one moment at a time and loving it!!!!