Floyd...I like you man and I do agree your situation with the courts is out of control.
My worry for you is that you are allowing her crud, her ongoing manipulation, and the stress of everything to control you. I see it on a lot of your posts to others....You give sound advice, but the tone it is delivered in spews wonton anger and frustration. This stuff will carry on for your beyond your current situation....unless you get it under control for yourself.
Come here and let the steam come out, but then build on it in a positive manner. At some point you have to let Floyd become the central character of your story, let go of the things you don't control, and move on. Let the lawyers battle it out. I would go as far as suggesting you double post from now on. One covering the lawyer BS...letting the steam out and then a second post highlighting the highs of your day.....whether it was a hot date or fun with the girls. Compartent each side of the situation.