Straight forward question there 2TH, There is a nice way Michelle addresses this exact question in her book but I can't seem to find the page???? I feel the same way. Almost guilty now that everything seems to be working. Like I've just abused my H's connection to me and made him bend to my commands. But Michelle says something like - you didn't make the mistakes in the beginning and if you knew what you were doing was bad for the R you would change your ways wouldn't you? so because your changing your ways by refocusing on yourself how can it be bad if it fixes other things in the process. I could be completely wrong also but this is how I interpreted it.
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Never allow kindness be misinterpreted for weakness. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
