I get it, but telling her where she's gone wrong won't help you feel better.
If it's time to move on, it's time to move on.
Let her go and free yourself.
bug, you are spot on. That's. What I'm wrestling with. I want to tell her I can't. Do this anymore. I want out. I personally feel based on knowing W that she's. Perfectly happy to live like this indefinately. I am not. She has a family history where 2. Sets of grandparents did exactly that. They just didn't divorce on paper. Not my idea of a good life.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14