On to Divorce and still litigating...new life.

[FloydMan]

For her it is 2 things...money and control. She tried to get $90k from me in equalization of assets. The math does not equate as they used fake numbers and did not disclose everything. Now it is about $30k as they now agree to that. Ow ever, she ran up $30k from our accounts after separation and I could not close the accounts as they were joint and needed both signatures. I paid for mortgage payments and the car (payments) to protect my credit as she was not contributing. So it should be even. They are trying to scam the $30k I paid out. I made an offer for a chunk of that just to close it, but is rejected. On the control front we have 50/50 on the kids but wants control over the schedule at her convenience and the choice of the vacations. She still is not responding to current expenses I am paying for like dentist bills etc. the bill is running up again.
Tons more controlling things with kids and putting hem in the middle. She told the kids about a vacation on my time and is supposed to get my approval first...I was wanting that time for trip. So she manipulates with guilt and kids. Long long story. More crazy accusations. Is trying to protect image. I think it is more about winning for her than being fair. I just want equity. She wants she want and she wants. However she owes she owes she owes,