I feel for your brother, because quite honestly something is amiss IMHO. I haven't been able to put my finger on it, but it is there.
While I understand that the BF may be needed girl time, I am wondering. Why does your wife feel the need to consult the BF before acting on things? Maybe I am a guy and it is different, but I think she would iron out what needs to be done with you.
Be strong Indigo....address, In yourself, the points that Mach and AJM made, because they are there. You do need to identify your end goal and work towards it.
As for blocking the number....I feel you just go with your wife's thought and block it. There is no need of an explanation as all four of you know what is going on is not in anybody's best interest.
