When I got home we had the talk about OM business. W is going to cut off contact completely with him. She is worried about how he will react and is uncertain on how to go about doing it. W just wants to block his number without giving any explanation. I told her blocking the number is a must,but I feel if she is nervous about how he will react she should tell him why.
My W wants to ignore any attempt he makes to contact her tonight and tomorrow then sit down with her BF after work and see how she feels it would best be handled. I told her that was fine, but I want it taken care of for good tomorrow. That I want to know what is going to happen and that the number is blocked. I explained my reason for wantint to be a part of it because this was what she told me was going to happen a few days ago.
The reason my W is worried about how OM will react is because his W recently found out he was talking to my W still and is extremely PO'ed. So basically it's looking like OM is not only being cut off by my W, but possibly his as well. That's not my problem, but W seems to think this could push OM to react in a bad way.
Just wanted to give a quick update. I will get on a computer in the morning, doing this on a phone kinda stinks.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M