2nd time around. H wants D. I don't

[NotAgainPlease]

Well, not so great. My Heart walked in and was kind of grouchy. I said what's wrong your date didn't go well last night? He said yes it was fine. I said what's her name?
That's when it went down hill. I said that's not fair you ask me everyday about my boyfriend. & I tell you. I'm not telling you her name.

it started to get a little heated so I left and went to my bedroom like a cool off. And he told my daughter that he was leaving because we can't get along. He came to my door wanted to talk to me but it just kept escalating.he then went home and didn't stay.

here's where our communication issues happened. I thought I was doing a good thing by walking away and not trying to fight anymore. Which was but I guess I should have told him that's why I was leaving and to let me have an hourto get myself together. this is what he told me later on that night. I said you were right I should have said something but I didn't. Because this walking away and trying not to fight is new for me.
I also told him I wasn't seeing the OM anymore. He was kind of upset that I wasn't because I think he thought now I will be bugging him.

so it ended like that and I haven't talked to him much except by text the last couple days about the kids. I'm just going to do no contact for A while.